Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Nasty is not welcome here

I have been avoiding blogging like the plague for awhile. Not fair to my readers and really, not fair to me. I like blogging. I like talking about the things that are important to me.
There was an Anonymous comment on my last entry that made me give a second look at a lot of stuff with regard to how I communicate and how it affects other people. I didn't really come up with anything that I want to change, but I am trying to pay a little more attention to how public I am about my feelings and opinions.
Anonymous, whoever you are. You are not my friend. Whatever possessed you you say what you did I am not sure, but clearly you are angry at me, or the world or something. I have never, not once blamed anyone for my getting cancer and anyone who is really close to me knows that.
My only reply to you is that perhaps you should read the title of this blog again. This blog is mine, and I can say whatever I want here and I will continue to do so. Nasty is not welcome here. Many people have told me to ignore your comment, sadly I am far too emotional for that.

Anyway, I am back. I had a bunch of cancer appointments since I last wrote and so far things are ok. I don't have to see the onco for another 10 months. I got to schedule my mammogram at another hospital. Now, I don't have to go back to the horrible Juravinski Hospital Breast Cancer Centre after they treated me and many other women so badly in January. I saw my breast surgeon and he says I am a good candidate for breast reconstruction.
I'm not sure how or when we can schedule reconstruction this year, but I'm going to try. I want to race in some triathlons and/or ride some long bike tours this season and we have to move the store again soon so it will hard to manage multiple surgeries and recovery periods.
I started a fabulous new eating plan a couple of weeks ago to get rid of the last 10-15lbs that I put on during surgery, recovery and chemo in 2008.I'm going to start talking about it on this blog really soon I think. As far as I can tell it's a fantastic plan for everyone , and if it can get rid of this impossible chemo weight I will shout it from the rooftops. I feel great and a lot healthier. More on that very soon I promise.


Anonymous said...

Noelle, you are an strong, compassionate, caring, articulate, and informative role model. Your "shooting from the hip" writing style may be offensive to some (clearly it is given that anonymous comment), to others it is "talking from the heart", and most importantly, allowing "us" to share in some very intimate parts of your life.
I, and I assume others also, were not only shocked but saddened that someone would respond to your blog in such an insensitive, disrespectful manner.
My suggestion to that person would be to go back and reread the blogs from the start, then and only then, will this person have a sense of your journey.
Or better yet, maybe they should come into your store and meet you. Someone so focussed on customer service, who goes above and beyond to ensure that customers are given the all the time, information, and support to make an informative decision.
So, last comment person, the store is open, the real question here is, are you ready to go and meet her??? said...

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